Now you need to know how to pepper these core traits throughout your interactions with women.
So let’s quickly go through how to confidently attract a girl you’ve just met 🙂 Smile and hold eye contact.
Learn to love yourself first before you can love someone else. ” The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you’ll be in the eyes of women.
And with this, you’ll find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all of this.
And lean back slightly so you don’t come across threatening. Ask questions to get her qualifying herself to you. Be sure to visit the experts’ sites to learn how they can help you become better at dating.
For example “I have zero time for dull girls, do you do anything fun in your spare time? NOTE: We also asked 31 Pick Up Artists how to pick up girls in 7 different situations in a parallel interview here, and then combined the results from both interviews to make this fun infographic on how to talk to women and build attraction!
You don’t have to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well. Like James Bond or Damon Salvatore in the Vampire Diaries, rather than Harold Wolowitz from The Big Bang Theory.
Be adventurous, take up something you’ve always wanted to do.
So without further ado, lets start by finding out what the experts think are the BIGGEST attraction killers: The Biggest Attraction Killers (voted by 21 Female Dating Experts!
) #1 Not holding eye contact / poor attention span #2 Too much sexual intent #3 Bragging & Talking too much (tied third place) #4 Risky topics – i.e ex girlfriends, sex & politics #5 Being too drunk #6 Bad hygiene #7 Being over eager #8 Not being present – i.e.
So don’t treat your interactions with women like an interview. Rather than ask boring questions like “Where are you from? “You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.
Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life. The ability to excite a girl is like a drug – give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more 😉 Ok so those are the 5 traits!