When you align with your true self, you are then instantly in the vibration of meeting your soul-mate.
Once the lesson has been learnt, physical separation usually occurs.
If you really want to connect with a Soulmate, you need to align with your own soul.
You need to discover who you are, honor yourself and begin following your heart.
Many of us spend years obsessing about meeting a Soulmate, but fail to notice what we are really asking for.
When we ask for a Soulmate we are really asking to grow and develop in consciousness, and not understanding this can sometimes block the energy from coming to us.