Many people claim that the Bible is just a bunch of rules.But God’s moral code as laid out in the Scriptures is not to restrict our happiness; it is to ensure a full and abundant life (John ). That’s why the Scriptures speak against living together before marriage.So, if a guy won’t pursue a relationship with you because you refuse to move in with him, is he the guy you really want to be with?Culture’s Big Lie #2: You will change him for the better if you live together.
Are you seeing how much you can get out of the relationships or are you concerned with how well the two of you serve God together? However, we should be concerned with more than mere statistics.
“In just two generations the number of cohabiting couples has skyrocketed, from 439,000 to 5.4 million.” Culture wants us to believe that we should accept this is the new normal. According to the Barna Group, 37 percent of cohabiters profess to be Christians.
I mean, that would be more accurate of our society today, wouldn’t it?
A wise woman once told me, “What you see is what you get.
He’s not going to change a whole lot when you get married and live in the same house.